Tuesday, 9 June 2009

Lordy lordy..............

tired is not in it today!!

Having a few problems with my eldest lad regarding trust issues and responsibilty and it is really getting me down, I feel useless at the moment. I have tried alsorts to resolve it from shouting to banning him from things to talking it through etc etc etc but nothing seems to work. I am really at a loss and don't know what to do next......I am at a total loss. :o(

Why isn't there more help for parents out there? It seems to me that because Matt isnt an 'extreme' case he isn't deemed as important to help and that is terrible. It often means that he is overlooked and that in itself can lead to other problems.

He is a fantastic boy but also very mixed up, we are waiting on an appointment for a psychological assesment to help with the issues and anger he has at the moment. I am worried that I am pinning all my hopes on this one appointment..........but I have to believe it will help him. In the meantime I am just in limbo and feel utterly helpless..........


  1. Big hugs to you... sorry to hear you're feeling down. I'm afraid I don't have any advice, but try and stay positive and I am sure it will work out. xxx

  2. Thanks Sara.

    I have had to fight most of Matt's school life to get help and when he can't help himself it gets me down, today is just a down day I will pull it together. :0)

  3. So sorry to hear you are having a rough time, it always seems to be the people who either don't want the help or take it for granted that seem to be 1st in the queue of everything :-o not fair when people like you are doing their best but just need a nudge in right direction, i can imagine its frustrating to say the least!!! Keep your chin up n tomorrow might just be when help knocks on your door, take care xx